I've been trying really hard to eat healthy. Back in college I loved to workout but I never ate healthy. Now, I'm trying to find the motivation to workout and eat healthy.
Working the morning shift it's been a challenge. I'm always tired and I'd rather sleep than do anything else. The weeks leading up to the wedding, it was easy to motivate myself. I had this gorgeous dress to fit in to.
So, I'm changing my eating habits and making a workout schedule that I can live with, yes, even if that means sacrificing my precious sleep.
Here's my favorite breakfast recipe:
Overnight Oats with fruit and yogurt:
1/4 cup oats
1/4 cup milk
1 tsp. chia seeds
1 tsp. vanilla
Mix together and let sit overnight in the fridge
In the morning add:
1/2 cup of strawberries
1/2 cup of raspberries (or blueberries; whatever fruit you like really)
1 tbsp. peanut butter
I love breakfast. I love fried eggs and hashbrowns and home fries. But lets face it, it's not good for you!
I found this recipe on Pinterest and make it almost every day. It's delicious and definitely fills you up!
Here's some health tips and such from the blog I originally found it from: http://www.peanutbutterandpeppers.com/2012/04/23/a-healthy-breakfast-on-the-go/
Monday, December 1, 2014
Sunday, November 30, 2014
10 things no one tells you about planning your own wedding
So, we've been married about 2 months and I still can't believe it. Time goes by so fast when you're having fun.
But, there are so many things I wish someone would've told me about planning the wedding myself. I always wondered why people don't tell you these things but I guess some things you just have to learn on your own.
10. Some ideas are better left on Pinterest. OK, Let's face it. Planning a wedding seems nearly impossible without Pinterest these days. There are SO many good ideas. So many, that you're going to want to do them all. If you do that and they're all DIY, you're not going to accomplish it all unless you have tons of help. Pick and choose what you like best.
9. There's way more details than you can imagine. I remember thinking "I have all my vendors booked, I'm done." Ha, yeah right! Timing, stamps, wording for your ceremony and invitations, even when you think you're done, you're not.
8. You're going to get overwhelmed. At some point, you're going to look at your to-do list and want to cry. I think I was 2 weeks out before I made a full list of all the things I had to do. Ummmm, why didn't anyone tell me to do this sooner? I had this wedding planning book with a whole list of things to do. It should come with a second list titled "All the things we forgot to tell you in list one."
7. Hire a wedding planner/coordinator. Here's the thing. I was 100% against this and just wanted to appease my mom. I figured it was a waste of money and I could do everything myself. Ok mom, yes you were right again. Of all the things we spent money on, this was the purchase that was worth every single penny and then some. I hired a day of coordinator, just to make sure everything went smooth. I really have no idea how the day would've happened without her and frankly, I don't want to think about that disaster. My mom and I were so relaxed because she took care of everything. This will be your best purchase, I promise. Thanks Emily!!
6. Delegate. From day 1 to the wedding day, don't hesitate to delegate. I was really bad at this. Thank goodness for my mom. But, she's not good at delegating either. Your friends and family are there for you, utilize them. Oh, and make sure you ask someone to keep your drink full :) Thanks brother!
5. Your wedding dress appointment(s) isn't going to be like 'Say Yes to the Dress' (most likely). I had this all in my head like it was going to be just like this tv show. I had so many emotions that I wish I could go back and do it over. Finding a wedding dress was really the first thing I did besides choosing a venue. So many thoughts are racing through your head, is this it? Why am I not crying? Does that mean it isn't it? So many brides feel this way but no one tells them it's ok to feel this way! WHY???
4. You have no idea what order to do things and what's more important. You find all these "checklists" online and you think it'll be so easy just to follow one. Sure, it's easy but it's not perfect. Every bride is different and every wedding is different. Make sure you add/subtract from those typical checklists.
3. Your vendors will ask you questions you don't know how to answer. From times to small details, you're going to read these emails and be so confused. I remember going to a florist and they started asking all of these questions that I had no answers to. All I knew was I had 3 bridesmaids, 4 groomsmen and I wanted pretty centerpieces. Isn't that specific enough? Be honest with your vendors, if you don't know, tell me. Ask for their advice. Send them pictures of what you like and your budget. They'll be helpful!
2. The day will feel like the quickest dream you've ever had. EVERYONE will tell you, it will go by so fast. EVERYONE. But, you won't listen. Embrace every moment. Look at all the details. You worked too hard for this day!
1. Don't sweat the small stuff. Your flowers aren't the exact shade of purple you wanted, the cake is hideous, you're running 30 minutes behind. Guess what?? No one will notice and you're the only person who cares. Shrug it off and have the time of your life!! You're going to run into roadblocks while planning, too. Move on. You won't even remember what your original idea was come the day of. We had our dream wedding venue back down and had to settle for something else. Guess what? It was the best thing that could've happened. Our wedding was beautiful, if not better at the new venue!
But, there are so many things I wish someone would've told me about planning the wedding myself. I always wondered why people don't tell you these things but I guess some things you just have to learn on your own.
10. Some ideas are better left on Pinterest. OK, Let's face it. Planning a wedding seems nearly impossible without Pinterest these days. There are SO many good ideas. So many, that you're going to want to do them all. If you do that and they're all DIY, you're not going to accomplish it all unless you have tons of help. Pick and choose what you like best.
9. There's way more details than you can imagine. I remember thinking "I have all my vendors booked, I'm done." Ha, yeah right! Timing, stamps, wording for your ceremony and invitations, even when you think you're done, you're not.
8. You're going to get overwhelmed. At some point, you're going to look at your to-do list and want to cry. I think I was 2 weeks out before I made a full list of all the things I had to do. Ummmm, why didn't anyone tell me to do this sooner? I had this wedding planning book with a whole list of things to do. It should come with a second list titled "All the things we forgot to tell you in list one."
7. Hire a wedding planner/coordinator. Here's the thing. I was 100% against this and just wanted to appease my mom. I figured it was a waste of money and I could do everything myself. Ok mom, yes you were right again. Of all the things we spent money on, this was the purchase that was worth every single penny and then some. I hired a day of coordinator, just to make sure everything went smooth. I really have no idea how the day would've happened without her and frankly, I don't want to think about that disaster. My mom and I were so relaxed because she took care of everything. This will be your best purchase, I promise. Thanks Emily!!
6. Delegate. From day 1 to the wedding day, don't hesitate to delegate. I was really bad at this. Thank goodness for my mom. But, she's not good at delegating either. Your friends and family are there for you, utilize them. Oh, and make sure you ask someone to keep your drink full :) Thanks brother!
5. Your wedding dress appointment(s) isn't going to be like 'Say Yes to the Dress' (most likely). I had this all in my head like it was going to be just like this tv show. I had so many emotions that I wish I could go back and do it over. Finding a wedding dress was really the first thing I did besides choosing a venue. So many thoughts are racing through your head, is this it? Why am I not crying? Does that mean it isn't it? So many brides feel this way but no one tells them it's ok to feel this way! WHY???
4. You have no idea what order to do things and what's more important. You find all these "checklists" online and you think it'll be so easy just to follow one. Sure, it's easy but it's not perfect. Every bride is different and every wedding is different. Make sure you add/subtract from those typical checklists.
3. Your vendors will ask you questions you don't know how to answer. From times to small details, you're going to read these emails and be so confused. I remember going to a florist and they started asking all of these questions that I had no answers to. All I knew was I had 3 bridesmaids, 4 groomsmen and I wanted pretty centerpieces. Isn't that specific enough? Be honest with your vendors, if you don't know, tell me. Ask for their advice. Send them pictures of what you like and your budget. They'll be helpful!
2. The day will feel like the quickest dream you've ever had. EVERYONE will tell you, it will go by so fast. EVERYONE. But, you won't listen. Embrace every moment. Look at all the details. You worked too hard for this day!
1. Don't sweat the small stuff. Your flowers aren't the exact shade of purple you wanted, the cake is hideous, you're running 30 minutes behind. Guess what?? No one will notice and you're the only person who cares. Shrug it off and have the time of your life!! You're going to run into roadblocks while planning, too. Move on. You won't even remember what your original idea was come the day of. We had our dream wedding venue back down and had to settle for something else. Guess what? It was the best thing that could've happened. Our wedding was beautiful, if not better at the new venue!
Tuesday, November 11, 2014
The day we finally said "I do"
I said I wouldn't cry. I said it would be easy. I said it would hurricane.
Yes, I, in fact, said all of these things about my wedding day. Not one of them came true.
Vincent proposed on March 16, 2013. We spent the next 17 months planning our wedding. At the time of our October 04, 2014 wedding, we had been together 7 1/2 years. To me, there was nothing left to be said.. or so I thought.
There's a lot that happened in those 17 months but I'm going to fast forward to our wedding day. I'm sure I'll get back to those other details at some point.
I woke up around 7a.m. that Saturday. My beautiful hotel room and a smile plastered on my face. And... I horrendous cough. (Lovely, right?) Then, I heard the rain hit the glass. Ugh, it was going to hurricane on my wedding day. The meteorologists kept saying it was going to end by noon. At this point, I was convinced it was all a lie and it was going to pour all day.
Then, around 10a.m. the sunshine came out and the rain stopped. The sparkle of the ocean was back and our day was back to being perfect.
All the girls were packed into my tiny suite. My best friend was there and life was perfect. (Her baby was born very early and was in NICU. I owe her so much for coming.) My bridesmaids didn't know each other prior to the wedding but this group got along so well. They're truly an amazing group of women.
There's just something about getting your hair and makeup done that just makes you feel like a Princess. I remember looking in the mirror after it was done and just feeling so pretty. It was all so perfect.
Pictures were next. How was it already 3p.m.?? Time was flying by. I wanted to savor every moment but there was so much going on.
I remember thinking, is the venue set up? Is everything going as planned? Is the cake there, is the food there? I spent 17 months planning this day and it was all out of my hands. Thankfully, it was in the hands of the world's most amazing wedding planner. Emily of Emily's Events had everything under control.
From there, the girls and I headed out for pictures. Maybe it's just me but feeling like you're surrounded by the paparazzi is well.. different. The one thing I didn't want was to be moved around and told where to pose. Thank goodness for Robert McClory Photography and 1007 films for their expertise with that. I never once felt like I was doing something unnatural.
I remember sitting in the room waiting for the ceremony to begin. It turned out to be the most beautiful day. The weather was AMAZING. Then, I found out the guys weren't at the venue yet. OMG I could've had a cow. But, they showed up minutes later. It's just like guys to be late, right? ;)
Next thing I know, we're lining up and I have my dad's arm and we're ready to go. WHEW... what a whirlwind of emotions. You're so overwhelmed but all that's going on that you almost forget what you're feeling. But, you pinch yourself just so you remember what it all feels like.
Before this, I had probably cried a million times. From this point forward, you could probably double it.
I remember reading the quotes we had for each other and just fighting to hold back tears. It was so emotional. It meant so much in that moment. I didn't want it to end. This was the day that meant forever. This was the moment that meant the world. Ladies, don't ever forget about planning your ceremony. It will be the most important part to you and your new husband.
And just like that.. the ceremony was over. We said the "I dos," we kissed and we were officially husband and wife. 17 months of planning and it's over just like that?? Yep, that's the way it goes.
The reception started and it was time to relax. Lets have a good time!! I remember during our first dance.. just looking out into the crowd and the beauty that was before me.
Our friends and family just watching us dance. But, it was them and my new husband that made me the happiest girl in the world.
My mom was the woman responsible for the gorgeous wedding.
Truly, I planned the vendors and such and she did the details. There were so many details that if I tried to name them all I would fail. But, I made it a point to look at all of them. I took time to look at all the work she put into this day. I can't thank her enough. The pictures don't do it justice but it was perfect.
After the AMAZING reception, we walked down to the Riverwalk to release some Chinese lanterns. They didn't go as planned due to the windy conditions but it was so fun to try.
My parents also surprised us with an ice cream truck! This was the coolest thing. Everyone received a ticket at the end of the wedding and it was good for an ice cream there. It was so sweet. Perfect way to end the perfect night.
I'm still in shock at how fast the day went. I tried my best to take it all in and embrace it but I would still go back and do it again. I wouldn't change a thing.
Thank you to all the wonderful vendors who made our wedding fabulous.
Here's a look at our wedding video by 1007 Films
Yes, I, in fact, said all of these things about my wedding day. Not one of them came true.
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| Dress from Bella's Bridal in Birmingham |
There's a lot that happened in those 17 months but I'm going to fast forward to our wedding day. I'm sure I'll get back to those other details at some point.
I woke up around 7a.m. that Saturday. My beautiful hotel room and a smile plastered on my face. And... I horrendous cough. (Lovely, right?) Then, I heard the rain hit the glass. Ugh, it was going to hurricane on my wedding day. The meteorologists kept saying it was going to end by noon. At this point, I was convinced it was all a lie and it was going to pour all day.
Then, around 10a.m. the sunshine came out and the rain stopped. The sparkle of the ocean was back and our day was back to being perfect.
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| Hair and Makeup by Basic Image |
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| Claudia Duque from Basic Image |
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| Hair and Makeup by Basic Image |
From there, the girls and I headed out for pictures. Maybe it's just me but feeling like you're surrounded by the paparazzi is well.. different. The one thing I didn't want was to be moved around and told where to pose. Thank goodness for Robert McClory Photography and 1007 films for their expertise with that. I never once felt like I was doing something unnatural.
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| South Florida Museum |
I remember reading the quotes we had for each other and just fighting to hold back tears. It was so emotional. It meant so much in that moment. I didn't want it to end. This was the day that meant forever. This was the moment that meant the world. Ladies, don't ever forget about planning your ceremony. It will be the most important part to you and your new husband.
And just like that.. the ceremony was over. We said the "I dos," we kissed and we were officially husband and wife. 17 months of planning and it's over just like that?? Yep, that's the way it goes.
The reception started and it was time to relax. Lets have a good time!! I remember during our first dance.. just looking out into the crowd and the beauty that was before me.
Our friends and family just watching us dance. But, it was them and my new husband that made me the happiest girl in the world.
My mom was the woman responsible for the gorgeous wedding.
Truly, I planned the vendors and such and she did the details. There were so many details that if I tried to name them all I would fail. But, I made it a point to look at all of them. I took time to look at all the work she put into this day. I can't thank her enough. The pictures don't do it justice but it was perfect.
My parents also surprised us with an ice cream truck! This was the coolest thing. Everyone received a ticket at the end of the wedding and it was good for an ice cream there. It was so sweet. Perfect way to end the perfect night.
I'm still in shock at how fast the day went. I tried my best to take it all in and embrace it but I would still go back and do it again. I wouldn't change a thing.
Here's a look at our wedding video by 1007 Films
Monday, October 27, 2014
My tribute to Luther
I've read countless stories and I've heard countless memories from those who knew Luther well. He was the staple in Chattanooga for years.
As one of my former co-workers said best.. He was the only constant in a world of changing faces and voices.
I was first introduced to Luther when I moved to Georgia back in 2010. I remember watching WDEF News 12 and listening to Sunny 92.3, thinking "who is this guy?"
It wasn't but a short time later that I received an answer to my question.
His name was Luther. He was a legend.
I started working at WDEF in 2011 and was first introduced to the man himself. How could you not love him?
He showed up to work every day, as long as it wasn't a holiday. He wore a suit and that hat. Oh, I loved that hat. His voice was music to your ears. That famous radio voice that rang so clear to those in Chattanooga for decades.
Where else could you go and someone would help you find your lost pet? The answer is nowhere. Luther was there for all of Chattanooga.
When Basil went missing last year, I was sad and confused and, frankly, lost myself. I didn't know where to turn. But, then again, maybe I did. Jackson County is not far from Chattanooga and I knew a lot of people there would listen to Sunny 92.3 and maybe even WDEF. So, I called Luther.
I heard him for nearly 1.5 years announce hundreds of lost pets. But, I never really understood how much effort he put into it. He called me every day until we found Basil. EVERY DAY. Not because it was his job, not because he felt obligated, he did it because he cared. He wanted your animal to be back at home with you. That's why. No one will ever care as much as Luther did.
Luther left us to go to a better place a week ago. We all lost a friend.
What will happen to Luther's page on the WDEF website? What will happen to that old typewriter in the Sunny 92.3 studios? We may not have the answers to those questions right now, but one thing is for sure, there are things we do have answers to.
What will we not forget? I'll never forget his smile, the way he made me laugh and his ability to love everyone.
After listening to all the stories, I learned so much that I wish I could have been a part of. But, I didn't grow up around Chattanooga. I didn't get to hear Luther cancel school. I didn't get to hear him for years upon years.
My favorite story though, is when Luther announced on the radio that people needed to let the air out of their tires and a bunch of people on the road would get out and let the air out. That made me laugh.
Frankly, I could sit here and listen to every story. He was a one and only. He can't be replaced.
But, I'm glad I got to meet Luther. I glad I got to work with him.
Until we meet again..
As one of my former co-workers said best.. He was the only constant in a world of changing faces and voices.
I was first introduced to Luther when I moved to Georgia back in 2010. I remember watching WDEF News 12 and listening to Sunny 92.3, thinking "who is this guy?"
It wasn't but a short time later that I received an answer to my question.
His name was Luther. He was a legend.
I started working at WDEF in 2011 and was first introduced to the man himself. How could you not love him?
He showed up to work every day, as long as it wasn't a holiday. He wore a suit and that hat. Oh, I loved that hat. His voice was music to your ears. That famous radio voice that rang so clear to those in Chattanooga for decades.
Where else could you go and someone would help you find your lost pet? The answer is nowhere. Luther was there for all of Chattanooga.
When Basil went missing last year, I was sad and confused and, frankly, lost myself. I didn't know where to turn. But, then again, maybe I did. Jackson County is not far from Chattanooga and I knew a lot of people there would listen to Sunny 92.3 and maybe even WDEF. So, I called Luther.
I heard him for nearly 1.5 years announce hundreds of lost pets. But, I never really understood how much effort he put into it. He called me every day until we found Basil. EVERY DAY. Not because it was his job, not because he felt obligated, he did it because he cared. He wanted your animal to be back at home with you. That's why. No one will ever care as much as Luther did.
Luther left us to go to a better place a week ago. We all lost a friend.
What will happen to Luther's page on the WDEF website? What will happen to that old typewriter in the Sunny 92.3 studios? We may not have the answers to those questions right now, but one thing is for sure, there are things we do have answers to.
What will we not forget? I'll never forget his smile, the way he made me laugh and his ability to love everyone.
After listening to all the stories, I learned so much that I wish I could have been a part of. But, I didn't grow up around Chattanooga. I didn't get to hear Luther cancel school. I didn't get to hear him for years upon years.
My favorite story though, is when Luther announced on the radio that people needed to let the air out of their tires and a bunch of people on the road would get out and let the air out. That made me laugh.
Frankly, I could sit here and listen to every story. He was a one and only. He can't be replaced.
But, I'm glad I got to meet Luther. I glad I got to work with him.
Until we meet again..
Thursday, September 11, 2014
23 Days to Go!!
I look at my calendar and I'm just in shock that we are this close to our wedding day. Where did time go?
My feelings: overwhelmed, busy, excited. There's too many emotions to keep track of, honestly. I feel like I'm being torn in a million different directions.
Floor plans, scheduling, music.. when does it end? Ok, truth is, it doesn't. There's so much to do and no time to do it in. How am I supposed to sleep, work, workout, have a life and plan this wedding? I, seriously, understand why people pay tons of money for a wedding planner.
Thank goodness for my Day of Coordinator. She's been amazing so far and I know she's going to take care of everything on our day.
I want to talk about the budget. I think Vince would say what budget? Yeah, ok.. so I didn't plan everything as well as I thought I did. There's so many little things that I didn't think of. Tipping, hotel rooms.. How did I not think to put this in my budget? I think that's probably stressing Vince out a tad. Whoops. Sorry love!
Here's my advice. PLAN, PLAN, PLAN. Yes, it's overwhelming. But, keep adding things to your budget. It's not just the big things like venue, caterer and flowers. It's the little things that are going to screw up your budget.
Find time for yourself. This weekend we went to a wedding in Florida to see our friends get married! We had a blast and it was well needed. Did we have the money for it? Maybe. We made it work. But, truth be told, we needed it. We needed a break from reality and wedding planning to have a little fun. Don't let your budget hold you back from living. You'll find money from somewhere and it'll be just fine in the end.
Enjoy it :)
My feelings: overwhelmed, busy, excited. There's too many emotions to keep track of, honestly. I feel like I'm being torn in a million different directions.
Floor plans, scheduling, music.. when does it end? Ok, truth is, it doesn't. There's so much to do and no time to do it in. How am I supposed to sleep, work, workout, have a life and plan this wedding? I, seriously, understand why people pay tons of money for a wedding planner.
Thank goodness for my Day of Coordinator. She's been amazing so far and I know she's going to take care of everything on our day.
I want to talk about the budget. I think Vince would say what budget? Yeah, ok.. so I didn't plan everything as well as I thought I did. There's so many little things that I didn't think of. Tipping, hotel rooms.. How did I not think to put this in my budget? I think that's probably stressing Vince out a tad. Whoops. Sorry love!
Here's my advice. PLAN, PLAN, PLAN. Yes, it's overwhelming. But, keep adding things to your budget. It's not just the big things like venue, caterer and flowers. It's the little things that are going to screw up your budget.
Find time for yourself. This weekend we went to a wedding in Florida to see our friends get married! We had a blast and it was well needed. Did we have the money for it? Maybe. We made it work. But, truth be told, we needed it. We needed a break from reality and wedding planning to have a little fun. Don't let your budget hold you back from living. You'll find money from somewhere and it'll be just fine in the end.
Enjoy it :)
Wednesday, August 13, 2014
Tennessee Valley Bridal Event- Get your free prizes!
It's going to be a great event and very informational for all you bride-to-be's out there!
You can find a ton of great information for your wedding, or any event really, at these events and the TNVAlley one is sure to bring out A LOT of great people.
Here's all the information you need: https://www.facebook.com/TNvalleybridalevent
WAAY is also running a GREAT contest! If you win, you get a FREE engagement photo shoot. As a bride-to-be, I'm pretty jealous. It's really easy to enter. All you have to do is tweet or Facebook a picture of you and your significant other with the #selfie2wed. How easy is that? You can find more rules and other things here: http://www.waaytv.com/brides/contest/
SO! Want free tickets to the event?
We have 3 sets of 2 tickets to give away. Just comment on this post on the WAAY-TV Facebook page and we'll pick some winners at random. You must comment by Friday at 8a.m.
Here's the link to the Facebook page. https://www.facebook.com/waay31news
Monday, July 28, 2014
When you carry the weight of the world on your shoulders
We've heard it time and time again.. The shooting, the murder, the death, destruction..
You've seen and heard the voice telling you all of this on the screen. But, how often, if ever, do you really think of that person?
Sure, they have an expressionless face. Their eyes cry no tears. How do they do it, you ask? 6 people just lost their lives and this person is on my TV screen telling it as if nothing happened. Sure, we've all said it.
I came across this article from many people in the TV business. It's worth a read for anyone in TV news and anyone who watches it.
http://uniformstories.com/stories/ems/heavy-news
It's a hard reality. That's why so many people get out of this business. So many people journey to the other side of that camera. Do we shelter our emotions so deep within us that we forget we have them?
You've seen and heard the voice telling you all of this on the screen. But, how often, if ever, do you really think of that person?
Sure, they have an expressionless face. Their eyes cry no tears. How do they do it, you ask? 6 people just lost their lives and this person is on my TV screen telling it as if nothing happened. Sure, we've all said it.
I came across this article from many people in the TV business. It's worth a read for anyone in TV news and anyone who watches it.
http://uniformstories.com/stories/ems/heavy-news
It's a hard reality. That's why so many people get out of this business. So many people journey to the other side of that camera. Do we shelter our emotions so deep within us that we forget we have them?
Wednesday, July 16, 2014
We're less than 90 days away
Wow. I can't believe we are in the home stretch. Feels like just yesterday we were stepping up to bat. It's been a journey but I can't wait for the day to get here.
I've learned so much in the past few weeks.
Wedding planning isn't rainbows and butterflies.
Shocker, huh? I always dreamed this process was so much fun. And it is. But, I'm not going to take away from the reality that it's work. Hard work. There's so many decisions that you have to make and you're on a roller coaster ride of emotions. Why didn't I know this? Why don't people tell you these things?
People will try to add their 2 cents whether you like it or not. Be flexible but stick to your guns.
I've learned so much in the past few weeks.
Wedding planning isn't rainbows and butterflies.
Shocker, huh? I always dreamed this process was so much fun. And it is. But, I'm not going to take away from the reality that it's work. Hard work. There's so many decisions that you have to make and you're on a roller coaster ride of emotions. Why didn't I know this? Why don't people tell you these things?
People will try to add their 2 cents whether you like it or not. Be flexible but stick to your guns.
Don't be offended by what people say. It's hard, your family and friends have opinions but you have to understand they're just trying to help. Even if it's unwanted.
I may say don't be offended but you may get hurt or you may hurt someone. Seems like everyone's emotions are high (or low) when it's wedding time. People may not do things you thought they were going to or they may even back out of the wedding all together. It sucks. These are people you love and look forward to being there and helping out. It happens.
Just remember... And I've had to tell myself this a thousand times... This day is about you and your fiancé. It's about the commitment and love that you share.
People will try to make it about them or blame things on you because you're the one planning it. Something you do may cause them not to come or it may be too expensive. They may tell you all of this within the last 4 months of planning and by this point, what's done, is done.
Nothing is perfect... But, as long as you have the one you're going to spend the rest of you life with, it doesn't matter. In that moment, that one moment you say "I do," nothing else will matter.
Wednesday, May 28, 2014
4 months until we say "I Do"
I'm going to be real honest here. Most of the time, I can't believe I'm getting married. I don't know if it just hasn't hit me yet or if the planning just overwhelms me.
I often wonder if it's normal. Don't get me wrong, I'm more than thrilled to spend the rest of my life with Vincent. But, we've been together 7 years. It practically feels like we're married.
Planning is going really well. Most days I wish we didn't wait so long to get married. Others, I'm really glad we did. I don't like to be stressed. I work in a high-stress environment and, frankly, I prefer not to be stressed outside of work. I see some of my friends planning weddings in 6 months or so. I don't know that I could do that. Too much in such a short amount of time.
I recently took my dress in for alterations. I LOVE LOVE LOVE my dress. Yes, that was 3 loves in one sentence. It's just gorgeous. I can't wait to see the final product.
Now that I put that on again.. I really need to crack down on getting in shape. If you follow me on Twitter (either @JillianTV or @JillianWAAY31) then you know I'm recently obsessed with Hot Yoga. It's amazing and I feel so rejuvenated after. Problem, I'm probably not burning as many calories as I should be. So, I'm headed cardio. Have I mentioned I hate cardio? I hate every minute of every step. Seriously. I'd rather lift 100 pounds 10x before running a tenth of a mile. I'm crazy, right?
But, I'm on a mission here and I'll be damned if I don't complete it.
I often wonder if it's normal. Don't get me wrong, I'm more than thrilled to spend the rest of my life with Vincent. But, we've been together 7 years. It practically feels like we're married.
Planning is going really well. Most days I wish we didn't wait so long to get married. Others, I'm really glad we did. I don't like to be stressed. I work in a high-stress environment and, frankly, I prefer not to be stressed outside of work. I see some of my friends planning weddings in 6 months or so. I don't know that I could do that. Too much in such a short amount of time.
I recently took my dress in for alterations. I LOVE LOVE LOVE my dress. Yes, that was 3 loves in one sentence. It's just gorgeous. I can't wait to see the final product.
Now that I put that on again.. I really need to crack down on getting in shape. If you follow me on Twitter (either @JillianTV or @JillianWAAY31) then you know I'm recently obsessed with Hot Yoga. It's amazing and I feel so rejuvenated after. Problem, I'm probably not burning as many calories as I should be. So, I'm headed cardio. Have I mentioned I hate cardio? I hate every minute of every step. Seriously. I'd rather lift 100 pounds 10x before running a tenth of a mile. I'm crazy, right?
But, I'm on a mission here and I'll be damned if I don't complete it.
Wednesday, April 30, 2014
Pinterest obsessed? Organize your pins
Are you Pinterest obsessed like me?
I seem to spend at least 30 minutes of my life a day seeing what's popular or what's new on the Wedding feed. Here's my problem:
I have your basic boards. Food, weddings, exercise.. on and on. But, I NEVER go back and look at what I pinned. It's like I pin things and they go away into an abyss. LOL. Ok, not really but you get my point. Truthfully, the only pins I probably ever look at are food ones. Mainly because I'm always looking for something new and tempting to cook.
So, today.. I am setting out on a really big journey. ORGANIZATION. I'm not a real organized person in general. I'm not messy. I mean I know where EVERYTHING is.. but by far it's not neat and no one else could ever find what I'm looking for.
I figure, I spend so much on this silly website pinning my life away, I probably should organize it. I mean, I am planning a wedding nearly based on Pinterest.
So, I'll have a "ceremony" board, "hair do," and so on and so forth.
I'm doing that tonight.. it will take me days and possibly hours but it's worth a start! You should do the same. I've found a lot of pins that I really forgot about.
I seem to spend at least 30 minutes of my life a day seeing what's popular or what's new on the Wedding feed. Here's my problem:
I have your basic boards. Food, weddings, exercise.. on and on. But, I NEVER go back and look at what I pinned. It's like I pin things and they go away into an abyss. LOL. Ok, not really but you get my point. Truthfully, the only pins I probably ever look at are food ones. Mainly because I'm always looking for something new and tempting to cook.
So, today.. I am setting out on a really big journey. ORGANIZATION. I'm not a real organized person in general. I'm not messy. I mean I know where EVERYTHING is.. but by far it's not neat and no one else could ever find what I'm looking for.
I figure, I spend so much on this silly website pinning my life away, I probably should organize it. I mean, I am planning a wedding nearly based on Pinterest.
So, I'll have a "ceremony" board, "hair do," and so on and so forth.
I'm doing that tonight.. it will take me days and possibly hours but it's worth a start! You should do the same. I've found a lot of pins that I really forgot about.
Wednesday, March 26, 2014
6 months and counting
Wow. Hard to believe that in 6 months I'm going to marry my best friend.
We've been together 7 years, it doesn't feel a day over 2. I always thought that the wedding wouldn't be as special because we've been together so long. But, as the details start to come together, I realize that's so far from the truth.
Ok.. so back to the planning.
Things are going great! I think one of the hardest thing for us has been registering for gifts. We don't really feel like we need anything. But, we have to register for something right?
Here's my two cents:
Have everything you need? Now is the time to upgrade! Have an older microwave? Pick a new one out!
Always wanted that espresso machine? Scan it!
Register multiple places and do a honeyfund. It can help you for the honeymoon and anything else you need.
Don't register for china if you're not ever going to use it. NO ONE has room for something you're never going to use.
We thought registering was going to be this huge headache. In actuality, it didn't take us long and it wasn't bad. We actually had fun doing it!! Imagine that :)
Happy scanning!
We've been together 7 years, it doesn't feel a day over 2. I always thought that the wedding wouldn't be as special because we've been together so long. But, as the details start to come together, I realize that's so far from the truth.
Ok.. so back to the planning.
Things are going great! I think one of the hardest thing for us has been registering for gifts. We don't really feel like we need anything. But, we have to register for something right?
Here's my two cents:
Have everything you need? Now is the time to upgrade! Have an older microwave? Pick a new one out!
Always wanted that espresso machine? Scan it!
Register multiple places and do a honeyfund. It can help you for the honeymoon and anything else you need.
Don't register for china if you're not ever going to use it. NO ONE has room for something you're never going to use.
We thought registering was going to be this huge headache. In actuality, it didn't take us long and it wasn't bad. We actually had fun doing it!! Imagine that :)
Happy scanning!
Friday, January 31, 2014
Cross your t's and dot your i's
Yep, I just went there.
My life is generally an organized mess. I have a million things running through my mind at any given moment and I can probably tell you a little bit about a lot. However, through the hundreds of papers in my desk I can probably tell you exactly where that scratch piece of a paper is I doodled an address. Yes, I know I'm crazy.
But, when it comes to the wedding I've tried really hard to be organized. It's one day that takes months of planning and I don't want it to be messed up. I've found The Knot Wedding Organizer to be my bible. Everything you could ever imagine is written in it and it probably has the best timeline checklist I've ever seen. I have a tendency to work a little bit ahead since I'm planning a wedding from out of town. It also has tons of advice. I wouldn't be surprised if by the time the wedding comes around in October.. that the binder is broken because of how often I'm going through it or putting contracts in it.
I would be so lost as to when to book vendors without it. I'm not one to remember every little detail. I encourage those who give me story ideas to constantly bug me about it because chances are I'm swamped with 10 other things and forgot. This keeps me in check. And.. frankly, gives me the idea to make one for my life.
Here's a link so you can see what I'm talking about: Wedding Organizer
This next thing is something I wish I would've found 10 months ago. Google seriously has done it again!
http://www.google.com/weddings/ Is one of the best resources for weddings. WHY did it take me so long to find this? Everything you need. If you're a gmail user like myself then you're really going to LOVE this. It creates Excel-like spreadsheets in Google Drive for anything and everything for your wedding. I'm LOVING the budget creator right now. I can access everything I need all in one place. It doesn't matter what computer I'm on either.
Another piece of advice: Hire a day-of coordinator. Emily over at http://www.emilys-eventsllc.com is who I'm using and I couldn't be happier. She's always there when I need her no matter what issue I'm having. She's organized and always checking up on me to make sure things are going well. I haven't even met her and I feel like I know her. It's a great resource to make sure you're on the right track to planning your wedding. AND it will keep you from having to do a whole lot on your special day.
Happy Wedding Planning :)
What's your advice for staying organized?
My life is generally an organized mess. I have a million things running through my mind at any given moment and I can probably tell you a little bit about a lot. However, through the hundreds of papers in my desk I can probably tell you exactly where that scratch piece of a paper is I doodled an address. Yes, I know I'm crazy.
But, when it comes to the wedding I've tried really hard to be organized. It's one day that takes months of planning and I don't want it to be messed up. I've found The Knot Wedding Organizer to be my bible. Everything you could ever imagine is written in it and it probably has the best timeline checklist I've ever seen. I have a tendency to work a little bit ahead since I'm planning a wedding from out of town. It also has tons of advice. I wouldn't be surprised if by the time the wedding comes around in October.. that the binder is broken because of how often I'm going through it or putting contracts in it.
I would be so lost as to when to book vendors without it. I'm not one to remember every little detail. I encourage those who give me story ideas to constantly bug me about it because chances are I'm swamped with 10 other things and forgot. This keeps me in check. And.. frankly, gives me the idea to make one for my life.
Here's a link so you can see what I'm talking about: Wedding Organizer
This next thing is something I wish I would've found 10 months ago. Google seriously has done it again!
http://www.google.com/weddings/ Is one of the best resources for weddings. WHY did it take me so long to find this? Everything you need. If you're a gmail user like myself then you're really going to LOVE this. It creates Excel-like spreadsheets in Google Drive for anything and everything for your wedding. I'm LOVING the budget creator right now. I can access everything I need all in one place. It doesn't matter what computer I'm on either.
Another piece of advice: Hire a day-of coordinator. Emily over at http://www.emilys-eventsllc.com is who I'm using and I couldn't be happier. She's always there when I need her no matter what issue I'm having. She's organized and always checking up on me to make sure things are going well. I haven't even met her and I feel like I know her. It's a great resource to make sure you're on the right track to planning your wedding. AND it will keep you from having to do a whole lot on your special day.
Happy Wedding Planning :)
What's your advice for staying organized?
Sunday, January 19, 2014
Here's a promise to myself...
AHHHHHH!!!
The wedding is about 8 months away and I feel like I've made no progress on getting in shape. It seems like every time I start to get in a workout routine I get sick or something magically gets in my way.
No more. I'm writing this blog post as a promise to myself. I feel if I commit to updating this blog with my progress, I will HAVE to do it. I can't let people down now, can I?
So, here's my commitment. I will workout at least 3 days a week and I will eat healthy. No more fast food, tons of carbs or dessert. The hardest part will be not eating after 7pm. But, I will do it.
I can't wait to look great and feel great in my wedding dress!! I'm doing this for ME and no one else.
Keep me in check people! Share your tips and advice too! I'd love to hear your healthy ways to get in shape!
Tuesday, January 14, 2014
Follow your heart; Accomplish your dreams
I'm not one to compliment myself. I have far too many weaknesses for that. I'm my biggest critic and I have lofty goals.
If you've ever read my bio you know that I've dreamed of being a journalist since 3rd grade. Sure, there were some other far out dreams in there too. At one point I wanted to be a dentist and a vet. I can tell you I would make A LOT more money with those career choices. ;)
I started doing the morning announcements back in 3rd grade. I continued that into middle school and chose to go to a high school with a TV production program. Since 6th grade I've known how to edit video, make graphics, run audio.. and pretty much anything else you can think of. I'm very proud of those accomplishments but I've never shared that.
I only knew 3 or 4 people when I entered my freshman year of high school. My favorite class: Television Production. It was so much fun. After my first year.. I was moved into TV Production 4 ( I think). It was the class where you produced the morning announcements. Yes, I was that girl on TV my sophomore year of high school. People knew me solely as the "girl on TV." People made fun and cracked jokes.. luckily that stuff doesn't really hurt me. I was having fun and doing something I loved.
Recently, a friend of mine posted some of those videos on Facebook. Ok... I may now realize why so many people made fun of me. What a funny show. We thought we were so good. But, we were 16, 17 years old. How good can you really be? LOL! Take a look, feel free to poke fun :)
http://www.schooltube.com/video/59f0ce9fc43d4806a55c/UPC%20TV%2011-8-2004%20Show
http://www.schooltube.com/video/9a3f275753ed4f4f8cb2/UPC%20TV%2011-5-2004%20Show
But, here's the moral of the story. People may make fun of you, think you're not good. They may tell you, you'll never be able to do something. Well, here's the thing: There's always room for improvement. Set you heart on something amazing and go for it. I've been on a 20 year journey to get here. Did I ever really think I would accomplish all I have? I'm not sure.. but, I knew I COULD do it, but only if I kept trying. Do I still have a long ways to go? If I told you I was perfect I would be lying. If I told you I still didn't have goals, what am I doing this for? Journalism isn't easy. It's a tough business with tons of people who are competing for the same job you already have.
No matter what you chose to do, keep following your heart. It knows best. Dreams are possible to accomplish. I'm living proof :)
If you've ever read my bio you know that I've dreamed of being a journalist since 3rd grade. Sure, there were some other far out dreams in there too. At one point I wanted to be a dentist and a vet. I can tell you I would make A LOT more money with those career choices. ;)
I started doing the morning announcements back in 3rd grade. I continued that into middle school and chose to go to a high school with a TV production program. Since 6th grade I've known how to edit video, make graphics, run audio.. and pretty much anything else you can think of. I'm very proud of those accomplishments but I've never shared that.
I only knew 3 or 4 people when I entered my freshman year of high school. My favorite class: Television Production. It was so much fun. After my first year.. I was moved into TV Production 4 ( I think). It was the class where you produced the morning announcements. Yes, I was that girl on TV my sophomore year of high school. People knew me solely as the "girl on TV." People made fun and cracked jokes.. luckily that stuff doesn't really hurt me. I was having fun and doing something I loved.
Recently, a friend of mine posted some of those videos on Facebook. Ok... I may now realize why so many people made fun of me. What a funny show. We thought we were so good. But, we were 16, 17 years old. How good can you really be? LOL! Take a look, feel free to poke fun :)
http://www.schooltube.com/video/59f0ce9fc43d4806a55c/UPC%20TV%2011-8-2004%20Show
http://www.schooltube.com/video/9a3f275753ed4f4f8cb2/UPC%20TV%2011-5-2004%20Show
But, here's the moral of the story. People may make fun of you, think you're not good. They may tell you, you'll never be able to do something. Well, here's the thing: There's always room for improvement. Set you heart on something amazing and go for it. I've been on a 20 year journey to get here. Did I ever really think I would accomplish all I have? I'm not sure.. but, I knew I COULD do it, but only if I kept trying. Do I still have a long ways to go? If I told you I was perfect I would be lying. If I told you I still didn't have goals, what am I doing this for? Journalism isn't easy. It's a tough business with tons of people who are competing for the same job you already have.
No matter what you chose to do, keep following your heart. It knows best. Dreams are possible to accomplish. I'm living proof :)
Thursday, January 2, 2014
Let the Wedding planning commence... Again!
If you've ever planned a wedding you know it's stressful. There's so many details. More than I ever thought possible. So, since Thanksgiving I've put the planning aside. I needed time to think about the Holidays. And.. well, truthfully I just needed a mental break. Ladies... it should be ok to take a mental break from all the planning every once in a while.
The closer it gets, the more excited we get! Now that we're finally in our Wedding year, it's more of a reality! YAY
Things are finally coming to fruition, plans are being finalized and it's beginning to feel real. The break gave me the strength to keep going without stressing out. I feel relaxed and refreshed.
Now, here's to dealing with a bunch of people who aren't the best at answering phones or responding to emails.
The closer it gets, the more excited we get! Now that we're finally in our Wedding year, it's more of a reality! YAY
Things are finally coming to fruition, plans are being finalized and it's beginning to feel real. The break gave me the strength to keep going without stressing out. I feel relaxed and refreshed.
Now, here's to dealing with a bunch of people who aren't the best at answering phones or responding to emails.
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